Back to Not Good

I talked to dad at noon today. He said that mom had a big bm last night. One she has probably been needed to do for a very long time! I don't know if that was what the blockage was or if they are going to do another CAT scan to see if there are any more blockages. Mom has a potty chair next to her bed. So sometime during the night, mom tried to get up & fell on her bottom. The nurses came in of course. They wanted to call dad & tell him, but she told them not to. All he would say, was that she's done that before, no big thing. So after that, the nurses have laid down the law, "No getting up, unless someone is here to help."
Dad called about 7:30 pm & said mom is back to the way she was before she got in the hospital. So maybe now, everyone will understand the seriousness of things with her & get this worked out. She still is taking the same meds as she was at home. She told me that yesterday when I talked to her. The nurse brought her, her meds. She asked what they were, nurse told her, & she knew right way that, that was what she was taking at home.
So I have no clue what's going to happen now.? Mom's kidney dc. came in yesterday & mentioned that her kidney's were alittle worse than what they had thought. But they want to get these other problems taken care of first, then work on that. Some talk may be kidney dialysis.
I think there is a little depression too. When this all started several months ago, all I would hear in our phone conversations, was sadness, loneliness, how tired she was, how much pain she was in. Mom has no one who comes & visits her. Except you, Aunt Barbie. No calls her, except for 3 or 4 people. I'm one who calls her daily, along with dad. Sometimes several times a day, depending on what's going on. Mom can't go out & do things on her own anymore. The friends she does have, live to far away & have lives of their own. Not even her own son comes over or calls to see how she's doing or to offer to come over & help with things. But that's a whole other story, that I'm not going to go into.
Dad still doesn't want anyone to come & see her. My Aunt Debbie, her own sister, dad won't even let her come. I don't know why dad is not wanting any support from any one. Which is what I'm getting from him. I don't even know if Aunt Barbie has been to see her.
So needless to say, I'm sad & hurt, that my dad won't let me come & see my mom. Of course I want to take my boys too! I know they don't completely understand what's going on with Nana, but it sure would make me feel better knowing they got to see her one last time........:( I'm trying not to think the worst, but it's very hard when I'm not aloud by my own father, to come & see my mom!!! I'm not sure what he's thinking or if he is.
I guess I've vented enough for the night. We are getting more snow tonight. The 4-5 inches we got this time last week, was starting to disappear....and now it's back!:) Fun for the kids!!

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